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Monday, August 01, 2005
what a crazy world!!!

Finally, I am able to sit down calmly and write things down, which I have been thinking since I am back from Shanghai. The main reason I can still sit in front of the computer so late is because An is departing to Italy for his seven-day vacation. He wasn't really willing to go back Italy, especially without my participation this time. But his parents miss him, and no matter how old he grows, parents are forever parents. Actually, I appreciated he did this. They say one big evaluation about man is to see how he treats his parents and relatives. At the end, when there is no more love, no more special feelings, at least he has some basic moralities to deal with woman.
The 2nd day I was back HK, I got a bad news about Shu. She was having a marriage crisis and her husband wants a divorce at any cost. The reason came out was cruel - he has been staying with a woman, only in 2 months. He denied everything with Shu, their more than 10-year feeling, their 2-year-old son, everything. He just wants her to set him free. To reach his aim, he hurts her by words, by any possible way he can do (including not returning back home). This terrifies me!!! A man, myself knew around 8 years, can turn to be a demon. Needless to repeat all the details, I just felt bad as well as all the other dorm girls. We once thought they would be the most model couple. But, but everything collapsed within a second. Shu let him free as he wished and she is undergoing a bittest life ever had.
Then I was talking with another College mate, newly married last year. Astonished to know, he nearly divorced. At the end, he managed to save his marriage leaving some crakes in his feeling.
And then, a travel mate I got to know in Sichuan. I was so admirable, she was able to maintain a good relationship with her husband, even they both differ so much. Can't be happy longer, she told me she is facing divorce too.
Is there anywhere somebody is not going to divorce?? Is there anybody can be a little bit more responsible about marriage, about his/her partner?? I have no answer.
I hate this society. People change so much and lose any possible ethnics.
I doubt and I am scared.
It is a crazy world full of nuts!!!

by gattomatto 11:39 PM (4) comments

Comments:

Dear Gattomatto, you are right: we live in a tough world where, often, egoism prevails on everything. People seems tobe mor concerned in the "to have" rather than in the "to be" side. But isn't it on the same line of the famous sentence of DXP "to be rich is glorious" ? Unluckily also in China this greed attitude is becoming a widespread cultural problem. Luckily still many people (as you are) are concerned about values and ethics: so, some battles can be lost but the war will be won :-)
An from Zurich airport

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